
“It’s like adding a textured masturbation sleeve to penetrative sex.”Ĭheers to sexcessories! Yes, you really need lube “This also changes the sensation a penis-owner will feel during sex,” explains Finn. To extend the size of your current phallusįinn recommends the (admittedly poorly named) OptiMale PPA Extender. “If the wearer has a belly and the receiver has a tush, there’s going to be a few inches that don’t end up getting inserted,” says Sloane.

Sloane notes that you may want to go longer than you think you need. If the wearer or receiver is bigger bodied If you’re a size royalįinn suggests the Avant Pride P9 Bear Dildo, which is 1.75 inches wide, or the Carter, which is 2 inches wide. “It features a small opening at the tip and one at the base, which creates a seal against the wearer’s body so when the giver sucks, a sucking sensation can be felt by the wearer,” explains Sloane. You want a dildo made out of dual-density silicone such as the New York Sex Toy Collective Mason or the Emisil Pack and Play Penis, says Taylor. To play and pack withĪKA to wear in a sexual or non-sexual setting to give the appearance of a penis or of a larger penis. You could use two separate dildos and put one in each hole, you could connect two dildos with a double-sided suction cup, or you could get a U-shaped double-ended dildo like the Ruse Double Dildo. For G-spot stimulationĪ short, girthy dildo with a pronounced head like the Buck Vixskin Dildo or the Temptasia Elvira Dildo is best. Sloane suggests opting for a long, thin dildo like the nJoy Pure Wand. For prostate stimulationįinn recommends picking a dildo with a big curve and bulbous tip like the Pegasus Curved Realistic Harness Set. The best dildo for pegging isn’t the same dildo as the best dildo for double penetration which isn’t the best dildo for packing which isn’t the best dildo for oral sex which isn’t - you get the idea. Otherwise, if you already know you enjoy girth, you can start a little wider. The same goes for folks who are new to vaginal penetration. (The Tantus Silk Small Dildo is a great option). If you’re new to anal penetration, she recommends starting with something that’s no more than 1-inch around at its thickest insertable point.

“No matter how small it looks online, in your hand, or on the store shelf, it’s going to feel bigger.” “Butts are nature’s magnifying glass,” says Sloane. Start smallĮspecially if you’re planning to use it anally. If you buy a non-vibrating dildo and end up wishing it did vibrate, you can always add a vibrating cock ring like the Lelo Tor 2 or We Vibe Pivot, which will send vibration down the shaft to both the wearer and receiver.

Figure out if you want it to be realistic “The rectum doesn’t have a point of no return the way the vagina does, so you need something to keep it anchored outside the body,” explains Sloane. If you’re going to put it in your butt, it needs to have a base that’s wider than the thickest part of the dildo.

Ready to read the most important sentence in this whole piece? If you want to use it anally, make sure it has a base Think about exactly what you want to use your dildo for and what features you want it to have before handing over your credit card.
